Anonymous
Why tho, i’m sure you’re a beautiful person and you’re just down in the slumps. Things will pick up whether it takes 6 years or not. Think of the future you can have, and what you would be giving up. xoxrose
Anonymous
That is not the answer suicide is NEVER the answer. Do me a favor, don’t self harm don’t hang yourself. Live your life normally wait 1 year look back on today and think “wow, i can’t believe I almost killed myself i wouldn’t have experienced all these wonderful things” it’ll happen just don’t do anything right now please xoxrose
Anonymous
We all thank you for that amazing comment! We try our hardest that’s for sure :)
-Micayla :)
Anonymous
holyyyyy crap, what kind of people are these? because 120 is NOT FAT AT ALL.
I think you need to take a look at yourself, without all of those other voices in your head, and you’ll see that you are perfect just the way you are! It’s really not safe or healthy to limit your eating, or obsess about your weight, and I think you need to either let these friends know that you don’t appreciate their rude comments, and if they don’t see how ridiculous they are being then they probably aren’t worth it darling!
I hope this helps you to see how beautiful a person you are :)
-Micayla :)
Anonymous
Honestly, letting yourself trust someone is probably the hardest thing you can do, especially after being hurt before. I know that letting someone in is the last thing you want to do, but it can be the most freeing thing you can allow yourself to do.
You never know what will happen in the future so you have to allow yourself to take risks, and maybe right now the risk you have to take is letting the guy in and letting him love you. He could end up being the guy you spend the rest of your life with (I don’t know your age), and even if he isn’t you could learn so much from him and from the relationship you have with him.
Don’t be too cautious or too scared to let yourself love and be loved. It may end up being the best thing that ever happens to you.
-Micayla :)
Anonymous
Now I hate asking questions regarding your questions since it’s so hard to get a response, but how is he “threatening” to hurt himself? Is it like you get in a fight and he says he’ll do it, or he gets really sad and tells you that he wants to?
I know that if he’s feeling depressed and has the urge to do it, then tells you about these feeling then that means he is reaching out for help. You need to let him know that it may be hard, but he should tell you any time he feels this way because you care about him too much to let him do that to himself. You also need to let him know how proud you are of him for not doing it and that you’ll always be there for him no matter what.
This is all from my personal experience, so I don’t really know how you exactly feel about your boyfriend, what kind of relationship you have with him or how long you have been dating, but hopefully if the situation is anything like mine then this will help.
If he is threatening to do it when you fight with him, then you need to make him know that this type of threat is probably the worst thing anyone would want to hear and although it may make you take his side or whatever the fight is about at the time, its not fair for him to do this to you. Yes, you should love him no matter how he is feeling, but if he’s just using it as a weapon of sorts while arguing, then he’s in the wrong.
I hope this helped and made sense. If you need to talk more about it do not hesitate to message again or message me on my personal tumblr, because I will definitely help you as much as I can.
-Micayla :)
Anonymous
There are other ways to cope with pain. Don’t resort to cutting. My best advise is to start a journal, get all your feelings out. Just don’t cut again, because in a few months you’re going to regret it. So please, don’t cut. xoxrose
Anonymous
Talk to your friend about it. Tell her the feelings you have for him. But don’t let a guy come between your friendship. Friends are for life. Guys change everyday. Don’t let this guy ruin your friendship. Hopefully your friend will understand how you feel and you’ll end up with him. Good luck beautiful <3
xo Emma
Anonymous
But you probably are. Don’t cut into your thighs don’t cut any of you please. You are most likely beautiful and people do think that. Look in the mirror until you can convince yourself you are beautiful which won’t take long because i’m sure you’re gorgeous xoxrose
Anonymous
Confused feelings,
I’d be careful going into the ex boyfriend territory. He is your ex for a reason , remember that. Also it would hurt your boyfriend now. Tell your boyfriend whats going on and how its making you feel, not over the phone or text but when you see him. That way he can see its coming from you’re heart. Tell him you want your old relationship back, it will show him that you’re not ready to give up as long as he makes an effort.
-Summer<3
